So marrying a doctor might be ideal for me. I still assume at times that my husband will recognize that I love him if I do his laundry and keep the house clean and care well for our children, etc.
Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe.
Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether.
Honestly, unless you want to convert and: And, if she does claim those things don't matter, be prepared to find out how much they really do after you've married her.
Always know the hospital and patients come first-it is just a given.
If we do get married I may have to foot more of the bills.