The church will be in your bedroom, finances, and all your decisions. And Mormons were basically encouraged to marry other mormons.
I love my former Mormon friends and family, but a relationship requires devotion and trust and understanding.
After all, when he IS around, he never makes them do anything they don't want to do, and he buys them expensive things to make ebonycock for being absent from their lives so much. My parents met when my mom was in 8th grade and married when she was I think my sister married fastest and knew her husband at least 18 months, dating for at least half that.