Even with the demands on his time, the man took the time and made the effort to post a profile on a dating site. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be.
She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it.
Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church.